Living a love affair at a distance and
still feel like a couple, it's a whole orgy: management of jet lag, Skype
planning and other "Netflix and Chill" perfectly synchronized ... But
it can also to have good. Here are our tips to reinvent your sex life despite
the miles.
1 Go easy with Skype
As in real life, you do not press a button
to trigger desire. No need to provide a sex date Skype fixed time,
embarrassment ensured. Instead, let the situation go wrong on its own. After
exchanging the boring banalities of the day, lie on your bed (pay attention to
the position of the webcam, high risk of double chin) and launch the prelude.
We know now, music has a strong aphrodisiac power. So you can gently raise the
temperature with a playlist well chosen in the background: Sexual Healing
Marvin Gaye, the B.O Dirty Dancing or a good old Gainsbourg (I love you ... Me
neither obviously). Well, we would not take a little glass of wine with that?
That should put you in the mood. Compliment yourselves, speak of your bodies,
of this charming mole which you perceive under the blue light, show your sexes
without touching them. And it should come alone.
2 Buy useful
You did not assume too much the passage of
the customs with a sextoy in your suitcases? Yet you soon realized that he was
going to become your best friend. And this is the opportunity to cross the
course with two. Fortunately, sex-tech has thought about long-distance
relationships. The must-have? The We-Vibe Sync Adjustable Couples Vibrator (to
shop on Amazon) that allows a double stimulation (clitoris and vagina) and even
to vibrate to the rhythm of his favorite music. Thanks to remote control via an
application (and a good dose of imagination), you are guaranteed that your sex
life, if not carnal, will move to the next level. And when we have passed the
course of "increases the intensity of the baby device", the real
reunion can only be electric.
3 Be old school
Who said no
one was writing love letters? We believe hard as iron at the return of romance
with shots of four colors. You only have to see the cardboard of Amours
Solitaires account on Instagram to realize that lyricism is not dead. Generally,
physical contact speaks volumes. But, far, it's time to use words: to warm
yourself or to declare your love. Go, we know it's binding, but you will not
have a thousand opportunities in life to read a real letter, enjoy it. And
imagine the excitement when you receive the answer on the other side of the
world. Of course, it also works by mail but your "Sincerely" in
automatic signature may make the story less romantic.
4 Climb the sound of sex
When we are
in a long distance relationship, we are often called, we write often, but we do
not have every day extraordinary things to tell. And the banal "I think of
you", you gave (besides the answer is rarely satisfactory). Distance will
force you to enrich your vocabulary and your ways of communicating. Know that
your brain is your biggest sex organ. When you talk, when you breathe or moan,
you send a direct message to your guy's brain. If you can try dirty talk, do
not neglect the nonverbal part of the sounds you make. Play on the breath, the
clarity of your voice, the tone of your words (sweet or hotter). You are not
told to start talking like an operator of the pink phone, but you will be
surprised to see the effect of your vocal chords on your partner's excitement.
5 Awaken the bomba inside you
The
long-distance relationship still has an advantage: you finally have a valid
excuse for bombarding yourself with selfies and posing lasciviously in your new
lingerie without being taxed narcissism. If you're shy, start by photographing
your face, your neck and the top of your bust. There is a respondent on the
other side of the phone? Start playing. An open shirt that reveals a piece of
breast, a photo taken in front of the mirror that reveals your buttocks ... Be
inventive. And choose your timing: the hottest is to sift the photos in the
middle of the day, as an appetizer. And believe us, it will quickly heat up on
FaceTime in the evening.
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